Dear Brothers and Sisters,
In Luke’s gospel, chapter 21, people were talking about the beauty and wonder of the Jewish place of worship, the Temple.  Jesus comments...

that all the beauty that impresses them will be destroyed and not one stone will be left upon another.  Obviously shocked, they ask when this will happen and what sign will there be that the destruction is about to take place.

Jesus answers and tells them not to be deceived when some will come using his name and saying the time is at hand.  “And when you hear of wars and revolutions, do not be frightened for this is something that must happen, but the end is not so soon…Nation will fight against nation and kingdom against kingdom.  There will be great earthquakes and plagues and famines here and there; there will be fearful sights and great signs from heaven.”

In recent months we have seen all sorts of fearful sights.  The destructive power of nature in earthquakes, hurricanes, forest fires and floods.  Terrorism, the response to terrorism, so many people around the world fleeing their homes to find some place, any place that is safe, exacerbating a situation already seemingly beyond a just solution.  In the city of Las Vegas, we have also seen the fearful and devastating horror one man can inflict with a single gun.  We have been made aware of so many unwanted advances against the human dignity of women, in Hollywood and on our streets.  We are facing an epidemic of drug abuse and of opioid misuse from teens looking to ‘feel good’ to intelligent and mature men and women looking to ease some physical pain.

Although some would claim that all the above are signs of the end-times or of the displeasure God has with the human race, it is NOT at all the truth.  Jesus is telling us that these frightful events, unfortunately, are a part of human, earthly life.  All through history one could say that ‘these are the final days; the signs are being fulfilled’.  And at times we bring some of our misfortunes upon ourselves.  In a very real sense, in a world so full of troubles and uncertainties, justifiably, many people are looking for some comfort, guidance and protection.  Unfortunately, too many are looking in all the wrong places, looking for a physical fix when they are really looking for a peace that the world cannot give.  Whether they know it or not, they are looking to fill a void that cannot be filled with common items like money, power, drugs, sexual pleasure.  They are searching for a feeling of calm beyond description; they are looking for the embrace of Jesus the divine physician.

As has been said and written so many times, Jesus begs us, “Come to me all you who labor and find life burdensome and I will give you rest.”  As we approach the end of a year full of turmoil, this is a good time to come to evaluate whether we are looking for comfort and solace in the wrong places or could we and should we be looking for that comfort and solace in a deeper, more intimate relationship with Jesus Christ.  At the end of the Liturgical Year, many of the Sunday readings for mass do indeed speak about, being prepared, being awake, being conscientious and not being distracted.  May we use these coming weeks, right through the Advent Season, opening ourselves to allow the source of all love to touch us, to heal us and to renew us.
We enter this fall watching one hurricane named Harvey slam into Texas causing destruction and devastation beyond what we experienced with ‘Superstorm Sandy’.  You and I will never forget...those first few days (and for some weeks, months) afterward waiting for power, waiting for water to recede and drain from homes.  There are some families still waiting to rebuild!   I think that Long Island would probably sink under 20” of rain experienced by the city of Houston and its suburban areas.  And at this writing another hurricane, with the innocent sounding name of Irma, even bigger and meaner, now taking careful aim at Florida with the roads already jammed with cars taking families to evacuation sites and hopefully to safety.  They leave with their lives and with the hope that there will something left to return to.  And as I write, now a large earthquake in Mexico.

North Korea is still playing nuclear games with the United States and any number of countries in Southeast Asia.   We hear about a resurgence of the Taliban in Afghanistan even as ISIS is slowly being outfought in the Middle East.  In our own country, we read about protests and counter-protests.  We hear about the racism of those who proudly support White-Supremacy and the call for the rapid phase-out of DACA.  And in our own town of Massapequa, we’ve experienced and hopefully moved beyond the great 6th grade debate.

There will always be, and I do mean always, be debate and argument, supposition and theory along with the extremely forceful (and sometimes overly forceful) presentation of conflicting ideas.  What one may see as a part of history, another sees as racist.  There will be questions as to the motivations which bring any of these thoughts and opinions to the fore and discussion in open and hopefully peaceful forum.

With all of the many fears we know too well, with all of the questions about why we are experiencing all the forces that nature has to throw at us and the problems of our own making as well, I constantly wonder why more people aren’t in church on a Sunday morning.  All the issues I’ve listed above can be easily tripled as vastly important areas which, if not handled correctly and compassionately, can lead to disaster, destruction and death.  There’s little we can do to control the course of nature (though many say we’ve already done too much).  And so the question remains, “With all we are facing, why have so many Catholics abandoned attending Mass on a regular basis?” 

Why not leave the world, with all the tensions and pressures behind for an hour and spend a short time in peace and prayerfulness?  With all the divisions, the violence and distrustfulness we see in our world, it is the Eucharist which brings us union with Jesus Christ; it is the Eucharist which binds us together as one in the Body of Christ; a spiritual food which brings healing and solace.  It is so important on a Sunday morning to bring a child to church and to demonstrate by your own action that this a priority.  We send our children to religion classes and Catholic school to learn about our faith.  We need to bring them to church to LIVE our faith, to experience the beauty of praying to for one another (especially those we may disagree with) and to know that all present are also praying for us.   As we begin a new school year insuring that our children have all the items they need for success in class, let us also insure we give them all they need to become closer to Jesus.
All through this year, along with the with the rest of the world, we have witnessed a growing number of terrorist attacks, especially in France and in England.  More people than we even want to think about have been killed and wounded.  Children, parents waiting for their children, pedestrians, couples and friends having a night out at an outdoor café.  When we see the pictures of the bloodshed, when we hear of innocent people being bloodied and maimed, when we imagine our feelings our reaction if any of this happened to one of our loved ones, we can react with anger and rage, sorrow and despair.  We can react with a desire for vengeance, a desire to inflict an even greater retribution and punishment upon those who care so little for life; the lives of others, even their own life.

We can react with violence.  We can react with asking ‘What’s the use?’  We also can react with prayer; a greater, more intense, a more fervent prayer than might be a part of our daily routine.  Prayer may not change the situation, but prayer does change us.  Prayer may not erase the headlines that weigh so heavily with sorrow on our hearts, but our prayer can influence what we will do and how we will react after reading those painful headlines.

As I have written in the past, there are 150 Psalms and there is a Psalm for every occasion, every feeling, every need.  The behavior of humanity hasn’t changed to a very great degree since the psalms were written, and so the feelings, the emotions, the prayers of the psalmist were no different then, as we still experience now.  One of the psalms which I turn to quite frequently is Psalm 130.  For those who pray the Divine Office of Hours, this psalm is a part of Night Prayer also known as Compline for Wednesdays.  I hope this particular psalm brings you the same sense of solace which I feel in praying for sanity to return to our world.

Out of the depths I cry to you, O Lord; O Lord, hear my voice!                                                                                                                                                         O let your ears be attentive to the voice of my pleading.

If you, O Lord should mark our guilt, Lord, who would survive?  But with you is found forgiveness: for this we revere you.

My soul is waiting for the Lord, I count on his word.  My soul is longing for the Lord, more than the watchman for daybreak.  Let the watchman count on daybreak and Israel on the Lord.

Because with the Lord there is mercy and fullness of redemption, Israel indeed he will redeem from all its iniquity.

I find comfort in this prayer in that I see it as a prayer both for the forgiveness of my sins and for the vindication that will be bestowed in acknowledging, both my personal guilt and my need for forgiveness.  We pray and wait for the Lord God to touch our lives more than the ancient watchmen who peered out past the walls of a city waiting for dawn to bring safety from attack.  As the watchmen knew dawn was inevitable, so our longing is for the Lord’s justice which is even more inevitable.  And let us know and take comfort that those who bare the mark of guilt for hatred, for various atrocities will not survive the final judgment.
For many the Easter celebration (one that continues 50 days all the way to Pentecost) is simply a time of hope; a hope that our loved ones who have died experience a peace that the world never gave them and could never give.  For some Easter is the ultimate expression of new life.  All of nature is springing back to renewed life.  The cycle of life, forlorn and bare during the winter and seemingly dead reappears in all its vernal glory.  For others, Easter is a time of another kind of newness; new clothes, new fashions, a new look that helps us feel better about ourselves.  For children, Easter is a time of an abundance of sweets; jelly beans, marshmallow eggs and chocolate (hopefully solid chocolate) rabbits.  Easter vacation is a time off from school and being outdoors and care-free for a few days.  Hopefully, for the greatest number of people, Easter is the celebration of the rising of Jesus from the dead.

All of these thoughts, especially the last, are true, and yet, each by itself falls short of what Our God desires that we know and feel about the most life-changing event in human history.  If we are to understand the Easter Mystery, then truly we need to connect this mind-bending moment to the joyous mystery of Christmas, the Incarnation, The Son of God taking flesh and being born among us.  Why was Jesus born?  Jesus was born to preach the Good News of God’s love for us, to suffer, to die, shedding his blood on the cross for the forgiveness of our sins.  Jesus was born for us, to die for us and to rise from the dead so that we too might accept His gift of eternal life.

Easter is culmination of God’s love for us, that what happened to Jesus will also someday happen to us.  Easter is more than a time of new hope.  Easter, Jesus’ resurrection, is the epidemy and fulfillment of ALL our hopes and desires.  What we work for so hard on this earth for ourselves and our families - security, comfort, harmony, understanding – is what the resurrection of Jesus from the dead promises for us who trust in his word - the gift of perfect joy, perfect harmony, perfect love, being in perfect unity with God who is perfect joy, perfect peace, perfect love.  Easter is the ultimate expression of New Life – the heavenly breaking of the earthly cycle which can never satisfy.  Easter is the sweetness that never fades from the tip of the tongue, through Easter, Jesus’ resurrection, we are offered the fulfillment of every longing, the final realization of how much we are loved!


 As the Season of Lent is on our doorstep, we might want to take a few moments to consider how this special time in the life of the church will touch us and, hopefully, change us.  Lentis a time when we make certain sacrifices, not just for the sake of doing something difficult, but that through these actions we might grow in the realization of how much we are loved in the act of Christ’s suffering and death, and through this realization that we might have a larger, more loving heart.  All of us, through our own many experiences, know that any change is not easy and yet we also know there are key instances in life when even a small change can make a big difference.  Taking the stairs instead riding the elevator, or getting even an extra half hour of sleep every night are just two examples of how a small change in our routine can have very positive health benefits.

We’ve made a small adjustment in our schedule here at St. Rose which we hope will bring positive spiritual benefits.  Starting with the beginning of Lent (see the special schedule for Ash Wednesday), Thursday 2 March, the church of St. Rose of Lima now will be offering a 7:30am weekday Mass aimed especially for those in the area who in the past would’ve liked to have started their day with Mass and Holy Communion, but were unable to do so because the 8am Mass would not have allowed them sufficient time to drive to work.

Father Greg, Father Collins and I know that you’re out there in Massapequa, Seaford and North Massapequa, and we know that many of you would benefit by this change.  We know that especially during Lent many people would love to attend Mass as a part of their Lenten journey and now we’ve taken a step to help you begin your day with our Lord.

As an added benefit to this time change for our first Mass of the day, we will also offer a “Holy Hour” every Thursday immediately following the 7:30am Mass until the beginning of the 9am Mass.  Whether individuals are able to remain in quiet adoration of the Blessed Sacrament for five minutes, ten minutes or the entire time, we intend to expand this opportunity to additional days in the future.

In a recent visit to Our Lady of the Hamptons Regional Catholic School, our new bishop, Bishop John Barres reminded the students that “Catholic Schools are critical to our future”.  I would like to build on that thought by saying that Catholic Family Life is critical to our future.  Parents can provide a profound influence on their children when they are seen making that extra effort even one morning a week to spend time with Our Lord.  And what an equally profound witness to the whole congregation it would be for the moms or dads who drop their children off at our school to come early for Mass, with their children.  A recent news article claimed that age 13 is the typical age when a young adult starts to drift away from the practice of their Catholic Faith.  So it is more necessary than ever to provide a platform and a reason for persons of every age to consciously and personally live their Catholic Faith.

Young catholic families, wherever they send their children to school, are indeed critical to our future.  Without realizing it, young catholic families bring zest and vitality to parish life which is needed and necessary to renew the spark in older parishioners whose children are grown, married and have moved away.  May this Lent be that conscious time for all our Young Catholic Families to know that in seeking renewal for themselves they also renew and strengthen the parish.  
Well, 2016 is gone, finished, caput and we’re a few days into the brand new year of 2017.  What will you do with this New Year?  Will the turning of a calendar page really make any difference in your life?  Will 2017 be any type of turning point or will the glamour of the possibilities of delving into this new year be like having a new toy that loses its shine and we tire of all too soon?

The new year is a time for resolutions in which one or two distinct possibilities occur all too quickly.  First, those noble promises we make to ourselves fall by the wayside OR second, they become a new part of our lives because they were important enough to us to make a new part of our routine.

That is the key point; whatever we intent it truly must have importance to us.  It cannot just be a nice thing, or something that will make us healthier or lighter or look younger.  Our resolutions whether they be physical or spiritual need to be LIFE CHANGING, LIFE IMPACTING to make us stick with them.  Change of any kind relies on consistency and a strong inner will or determination and so we may think that the changes, the improvements we’d like to make are far too difficult.  And that may be our first mistake, trying to do a personal makeover all alone.  St. Paul, however reminds us that, “I can do all things in Him who strengthens me”.

We are reminded in many different scripture passages, but especially in many of the psalms NOT to rely on our own power or our own strength, nor to depend on other people, even kings and princes to come too our aid.  To do so can bring us extreme disappointment.  Instead, in attempting to make changes in our lives we are to cooperate with God’s strength. “God is for us our refuge and our strength, a stronghold in time of need” (Ps. 46). 

We often think of God as being a defender and shield against outside enemies who wish to harm us in some way.  And yet, we know that we ourselves can be our own worst enemies with some of the decisions we make or perhaps not kicking it into gear when we know we need to take some kind of action.  We forget that there are times and situations, especially when trying to initiate some sort of change in ourselves, when praying for ourselves is the very best action we can take.

In whatever words we choose to use, we should believe that God desires that we turn to him in prayer.  The oft quoted phrase, ‘God helps those who help themselves’, is not found in scripture.  Rather we are reminded that God helps those who CANNOT help themselves.  We rely on God’s grace, God’s great compassion to aid us (not to do it for us) in our weakness.  We know that God does not wish our death but rather our true conversion of heart.  For if God did not spare His Only Son, but gave Him up (to death) to benefit us all (Romans 8:31), will God ignore the prayer of one who truly wishes to improve themselves?  GOD DESIRES that we turn to Him, in prayer, not just for dangers that threaten us, but whenever inner temptation threatens to overcome our better desires.

What will you do with this new year? How about turning more often to God?
Winter 2016:  As we enter this busy time of year, we can sometimes take on the characteristics of that character we know (and even love) as “The Grinch”.  I don’t know of anybody who isn’t familiar with the story, especially as there have been a couple of TV and movie versions of “How the Grinch Stole Christmas” (the original is my favorite!)For all of us, this writer included, the joy of the Advent season can get shrunken by the list of things that we feel that we must do.  We may even get that feeling of self-pity that we’re the only one in the family who is saddled with all in the preparations for Christmas morning.  We have our lists, we have a certain number of days, and things don’t always turn our as we’ve scheduled and planned (in fact our original plans and time lines are generally unrealistic).  From personal experience, one that I believe we’ve all shared, we can become cranky, grumpy and most Grinch-like when the days dwindle and the to-do list hasn’t gotten any shorter, and in fact has grown longer.

And that’s when we can turn into the Grinch who steals Christmas.  We steal the joy of the Christmas Season from others by sulking, because we may have been inconvenienced and by allowing these setbacks to get under our skin.  We steal the joy of the Christmas Season from those whom we love by refusing to enter into their joy.  And in succumbing to these very real frustrations, in reality we are stealing the joy of the Christmas celebration from OURSELVES.  We are keeping ourselves from entering into the most wonderful time of the year; the celebration of God become man.  Oh yes, we will snap out of it eventually, yet think of all the time and emotion we’ve wasted by forgetting that all that we do, we do for Jesus himself and for all our families and friends whom we love.  We all can remember at least one story told about the Christmas feast which teaches the lesson that it isn’t all the lights and goodies and tinsel that surrounds Christmas which makes us happy, but the people we gather with in the name of the Son of God, Jesus Christ.

The experience of these next four weeks of literally having too much on our plate is a good lesson for the New Year of 2017.  There will always be moments of frustration, annoyance and anger.  There will always be situations that threaten to become obstacles and overwhelm us.  There will always be those individuals who rub us the wrong way.  We need only remember WHY we run ourselves ragged over these next four weeks.  In pausing for that extra moment in thought, we need to see the irony that when we are preparing to celebrate the birth of the Prince of Peace that so many of us are lacking a peaceful spirit.  There are no magical answers or formulas; but reminding ourselves to take a breath and pray certainly helps.  When can say that ‘Jesus is the reason for the Season’ (Thank you Knights of Columbus for that pithy summary), we can also realize that Jesus is the reason for every season, every week, every day.  When we make Jesus the priority in our lives then (to steal another Christmas song line) there will be nothing that brings dismay.  May the Spirit of joy that the celebration of the birth of Jesus brings, guide you throughout the year of 2017. 

Fall 2016: The summer is winding down.  And as wonderful as the warmer weather, trips to the beach and vacation time can be, we come to appreciate those days of fun and relaxation all the more because they are so ephemeral.  
We need some down time, as for most people the greatest majority of our attention and our time is focused on our jobs, our classes.

Each September in a sense, therefore, is the beginning of a new year.  Certainly our school children and their teachers recognize this.  After being refreshed by the summer vacation, they begin again with new challenges.  This may not really be the case at our jobs, but in a sense, after having some time off in the summer, I think it important that we attempt to make our return to the ordinary routine of work ‘something new’ for ourselves.

We can return with a new attitude of generosity or patience.  We can resolve not to allow ourselves to be so consumed by the needs of the workplace, that the relationships within our families suffer.  We can make the resolution to be more understanding with our superiors at work, or to be more open to the needs of those who work for us.  We can promise ourselves that we will ‘take Jesus to work with us’ and quietly turn to Him in moments of tension or when some of those old or constant annoyances pop up.

Even though the autumn is a time when leaves start falling, signaling the approach of winter, it is also a beautiful season when those same leaves do first change their color and provide a magnificent display of natural beauty.  If we look at autumn more as a ‘new year’ for us and our children and grandchildren rather than just a new season, it can signal for us a time to change any of the ‘bad habits’ that we may have developed over the summer.

Summer, understandably, provides a relaxation in our routine.  Now that families are getting back to their ‘school year routine’, this may be a perfect time to put a few ‘new wrinkles’ in that routine at the very start.  One question can be, “What are the greatest priorities in my life?”  Another can be, “What priority do I set in my relationship with Jesus Christ?”  We need to admit to ourselves how far up or how far down on the list He is.  In a world full of tension, full of violence, full of hatred, full of an uncertainty of where we are going, we may lose heart.  Yet the gospels and Pope Francis continually urge us to Jesus.  And Jesus himself is always reminding his followers, “Do not be afraid”.  “Have faith in God and have faith in me.”

We can become quite busy this September with all sorts of new activities and demands.  It is OK to be busy, to engage in those things that bring us joy or a challenge or pleasure.  Let us also include God in our busyness.   


It is a time of horror, a time of sorrow – all of our own making.  We are living in the midst of an American tragedy, as divisive and heartbreaking as the American Civil War which pitted brother against brother.As Americans, we are all brothers and sisters in One Nation, under God, yet in recent days both that sense of fraternity and the presence of God seem so very far away.

Even in you’ve been away on vacation over the last two weeks, I’m fairly confident that you’re aware of the police shootings of black citizens in New Orleans and in Minnesota.  In past months, we have suffered the same sad news in our own New York City.  Incidents of police brutality have been reported all over the country, most prominently in Baltimore and St. Louis.

In the city of Dallas, Texas five police officers were shot down and killed and another seven wounded by a sniper who, according to reports was upset about these most recent police shootings of innocent black citizens who were victims of gross police over reactions.  It is understandable that at some point something snaps in any human psyche, but it is still unacceptable that these men also became victims of hatred, murdered in place of those who are guilty of violent racism.  And we as a country ask, “Why is this happening?  What’s going on?  How do we make this insanity stop?”

We should be outraged and frightened by these recent events.  We should be outraged and frightened by the reaction of certain people toward them.  We should also know that what we read about and watch did not spring out of thin air, but they are the inevitable result of a larger, more frightening chain of our history.  The dismissal of the life of faith by so many who claim the name “Christian”, “Jew”, “Muslim” is partly to blame.  Fear (of many things) is certainly the other part of the equation, for fear does breed violent reaction; thinking (wrongly) to protect ourselves from what scares us; and we live in scary times.

Is it any surprise that with the breakdown of family life, traditional moral and ethical values, the down turn of involvement in spiritual and religious life within our churches and places of worship that we are facing this crisis on our streets?  Is it any surprise as seen by every recent poll, that as people diminish their relation with God that hatred, racism and violence increase?  Is it any surprise that when we take prayer out of our schools and places of public assembly that there is such a great loss in our moral compass?

There are many contributing factors as to why we are experiencing our present dilemma.  Some claim that formal religion does little good and comes with its own prejudices.  There may be a grain of truth to that statement, yet I recoil from the thought of what our lives would be like without the gift of knowledge of God’s presence in our hearts which restrains so many of our more savage impulses.

Therefore, though we may not be able to turn back the clock, we need to bring a sense of sinfulness and the need for conversion to our country.  We need to once again make clear and teach our children – and remind one another - that there are certain consequences (no matter who you are) for certain actions.  Call me naïve, but it is clear that the more we push God away from our life, the more we will experience sorrow and strife.  Fear of the Lord is one of the seven gifts of the Holy Spirit.  We fear God’s punishment for our sins, but more importantly we fear separating ourselves from God’s love, as GOD IS LOVE.  The Great Commandment is Love God, Love your Neighbor.  If we can only start there, there would be no need to fear either here or above.

Our hearts and prayers go out to the victims of the murderous attack in Orlando. We grieve for them and with their families. We are both sorrowful and appalled at the hatred behind this act of terrorism and we condemn this and all actions committed to cause pain and suffering. May the prayer of St. Francis be our guide. 
In response to hatred, may we sow love. In return for injury, may we bring healing. In place of fear, may we bring comfort and solace. Today as always, we try to follow in Jesus' footsteps in comforting the victims while in some way calling upon divine intervention, to love our enemies and pray for our persecutors.
  With each passing day we see more strongly the need for both a personal and communal practice of Mercy.  In this Extraordinary Year of Mercy, declared by Pope Francis, daily events remind each of us of the mercies experienced in our own lives and the need to extend mercy.   What is mercy?  Many people can give numerous definitions of what mercy is, but perhaps the best and simplest way to speak of this great virtue is in three words – any undeserved gift.

The gift of Mercy can be a dramatic gift such as sparing the life of someone whose actions deserve death.  The gift of Mercy can be the forgiving of a loan or debt that would be difficult or even impossible to repay.  Being merciful may be the keeping of a person’s secret that would harm them, and them alone, if revealed.  In the gospels, the mercy of God is in the forgiveness of sins.  In the gospels, Jesus shows another side of divine mercy by healing or curing various illnesses and maladies that could not be improved by the medical ability of his time.

In our day to day routines, we may feel that it is difficult to see mercy in our world.  We may feel that it is even more difficult to extend mercy knowing how people take undue advantage of goodness.  This is where the practical definition of Mercy takes shape as one of the fruits of Charity.  It is a practice of loving mercy for the person who has two coats to give a person who is suffering from the cold.

Yet the practice of Mercy does not have to be the lived in the intensity of St. Martin of Tours, who cut the cloak he was wearing in half to give to a beggar who was shivering by the city gates.  We can practice the virtue of Mercy through any charitable action when we come to the aid of a person in spiritual or bodily need.  Indeed, simply by consciously and actively living the words of the Our Father …forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us… is a beautiful way to enter into this Jubilee Year of Mercy by both the action of the bestowal of mercy and the need of receiving God’s mercy each day.

Fr. Ken